In many ways I find the old year vs. new year principle a little bit ridiculous. I mean, it’s one day, we go to bed and wake up to another day, but all of a sudden it’s different because it is a new year. Nothing has really changed, but yet millions of people, including myself, can’t stop themselves from using it as an opportunity to reflect and make decisions about what we would like to change in the next 365 days.
I’m not big on new year’s resolutions. With my track record of non-ability to stick to anything, I find it easier to make no resolutions in order to avoid disappointment and not feel any guilt about what I failed to achieve. I do like to reflect though and 2015 has been some year for reflection.
I have learned a lot, mostly about living with less. It was a year of fewer friends, fewer family, fewer “things”, less support, less money. In contrast with that, it was also in many ways a year of more. More new experiences, more opportunities to recognise and appreciate the smaller things in life, more learning, more adventure.
It’s easy to look back on 2015 and “feel sorry” for ourselves, because it’s been such a tough year. But if you look around you, how many people do you know that really had an “easy” year? I know people who have lost jobs, lost loved ones, went through divorce, received the dreaded call from the doctor saying that the test results are unfortunately positive. There are pain and hardship wherever you look. However, we all have reason to be thankful too for 2015. Some people may have to look a bit harder, but I believe everyone must have something to be thankful for, however small it may be.
So my signing off message is simple, forget about the tough lessons of 2015, take the good ones with you in 2016 and may the year treat you better. Even though tomorrow is just another day, may it be the start of something new, be it a mind-set, a dream, a new goal. And may you not be too afraid to venture outside of that which is comfortable and enjoy the reward of taking chances. It will be painful, but so worthwhile. Trust me, I speak from experience!